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		<title>Measured Influence Isn&#8217;t Real</title>
		<link>http://gregdelima.com/2011/01/24/measured-influence-isnt-real/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Jan 2011 21:36:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Greg de Lima</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In the best Twitter conversation I have ever had, Olivier Blanchard (@thebrandbuilder), myself and others had one of the most intriguing conversations. We realized that while there&#8217;s some sort of &#8220;algorithm&#8221; that tells us how influential we are, where&#8217;s the true, realistic value that yields an almost tangible result? Klout is full of it Like it or [...]]]></description>
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<p style="text-align: left;">In the best Twitter conversation I have <em>ever </em>had, <a href="http://thebrandbuilder.wordpress.com/">Olivier Blanchard </a>(@thebrandbuilder), myself and others had one of the most intriguing conversations. We realized that while there&#8217;s some sort of &#8220;algorithm&#8221; that tells us how influential we are, where&#8217;s the true, realistic value that yields an almost tangible result?</p>
<h2>Klout is full of it</h2>
<p>Like it or not, <a href="http://klout.com">Klout</a> is math. It measures, analyzes, and then shows you a result. But what is it measuring? How can one single Tweet have a value to it because it was retweeted 15 times, or replied to with a witty answer? Simply put, it can&#8217;t. The value of a relationship, of an interaction, has a fallout that is immeasurable. Let me put it this way: Over the course of about an hour and a half the thoughts that were exchanged have built a level of communication that in the future could hold more for me or Olivier than what happened in just that time. This blog post may yield some clicks on an affiliate link or a Google Ad, or maybe even reach someone willing to employ me. Can Klout measure those repercussions? Yeah&#8230;no, they can&#8217;t.</p>
<p><a title="Twitter - Desertronin" href="http://twitter.com/desertronin">@desertronin</a> said:</p>
<blockquote><p>But digital influence is like a mirage, I may be known by a certain segment, but there&#8217;s a good chance that I&#8217;ll ever be able to move them to buy a product, give to a charity, start any meaningful action.</p></blockquote>
<p>I couldn&#8217;t have said better. But to him my answer was that the people that we meet first-hand, in person and have held a conversation with become the people that influence us or that we influence; Klout can&#8217;t measure that. We are better off using the smaller communities that we are a part of to get a message out to those with whom we have mutual trust.</p>
<h2>Gaming the System</h2>
<p><a title="Chris Brogan" href="http://chrisbrogan.com">Chris Brogan </a>was right in <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Trust-Agents-Influence-Improve-Reputation/dp/0470635495/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1295903254&amp;sr=8-1">Trust Agents</a> when he talked about tinkering and gaming the existing models for out benefit. As NSFW as this is Olivier was right:</p>
<blockquote><p>The problem is the combination of &#8220;personal branding&#8221; and &#8220;influenceitis.&#8221; It turns social platforms into a giant circle-jerk.</p></blockquote>
<p><a href="http://quora.com">Quora</a>, Twitter, Blogs, it&#8217;s all a &#8220;You scratch my back, I&#8217;ll scratch yours&#8221; mentality. The constant revolution of using these tools to promote ourselves and prove that in an atmosphere where the playing field has been leveled, we are all competing against each other where we are all the same. Essentially perfect competition. The people who can become these influencers are the ones that have tinkered with it to form &#8220;influential opinions&#8221;.</p>
<p>Tools like Quora are beneficial, they do give us answers questions that need solutions. Too often though, are we asking the wrong questions, we ask for opinions on solution, not for the solution itself (which goes back to <a href="http://gregdelima.com/2011/01/22/perception-is-everything/">perception</a>).</p>
<p>It&#8217;s time to start seeing social media as a problem solver, not an opinion giver (yes I realize that I&#8217;m stating an opinion to a solution not a solution, call me a hypocrite). When you realize that someone is looking for a solution, where&#8217;s the harm in an explicit answer, not some roundabout bullshit answer that may vaguely give the asker a concept.</p>
<p>Stop caring about yourself, trust me your personal brand with grow more by helping the people in your community rather than boosting yourself.</p>
<p>Follow this on David Armano&#8217;s <a href="http://www.quora.com/Is-Quora-a-thinly-veiled-network-for-self-promotion?srid=4iT">Question on Quora</a>.</p>
<p><strong><em>Image by <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/suteki/">beckitten</a></em></strong></p>
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		<title>Networking or Marketing</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Apr 2010 16:20:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Greg de Lima</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[What is your focus in the social sphere? Networking, Marketing? Whichever it is there is a difference, and one that many people tend to blur. Networking and marketing are two entirely separate strategies and methods for their own unique goals. While many strategist employ the usage of both to further their means, we cannot make [...]]]></description>
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<h2>Networking</h2>
<p>A Social Network as put by <a title="Wikipedia - Social Network" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Social_network">Wikipedia</a> is:  a social structure made of individuals (or organizations)  called &#8220;nodes,&#8221; which are tied (connected) by one or more specific types  of interdependency, such as  friendship,  kinship,  financial exchange, dislike, sexual relationships, or relationships of beliefs,  knowledge or prestige.</p>
<p>When it was decided to take social networking out of the face-to-face daily contacts that we have and turn it into an online craze, Social Networking turned into another type of game; Not the game of high school&#8217;s, who&#8217;s most popular, but rather a game of who has the most important and <em>useful</em> contacts. Whizzes like Mary Kurek (<a title="Twitter - Mary Kurek" href="http://twitter.com/marylkurek">@marylkurek</a>), and Chuck Hester (<a title="Twitter - Chuck Hester" href="http://twitter.com/ChuckHester">@chuckhester</a>), base the majority of their time seeking out contacts, making connections, and being a hub for others whether job hunting, client hunting, sponsorships, any possibility of business networking.</p>
<p>One of Mary&#8217;s <a title="Breaking Down Business Connecting - Client Case - Mary Kurek Blog" href="http://marykurek.com/node/32">recent blog posts</a>, outlines what could be taken as her procedure for social networking. By bringing every person into the hub and keeping an eye on their activity, Mary can look at one connection and say, &#8220;Hey! I know someone who can help you out with _____.&#8221; Providing utility and quality for these networks everyone benefits.</p>
<p>On the other hand Chuck Hester, is more of a Live maven for these networking events. By hosting LinkedIn Live Raleigh, Chuck has managed to pull off events of over 500+ professionals from every walk of life to come together and simply do what people do best, socialize. In one way, this is exactly what Mary does, but on the other side, it&#8217;s entirely different. By simply bringing local professions together and simply having them in the same room, people will naturally begin to talk and find out about each other. So should one person find another who suits their need, wham bam business card exchange, they&#8217;re good to go.</p>
<p>This, is Networking.</p>
<h2>Social Marketing</h2>
<p><!-- google_ad_section_start -->Marketing defined by the <a title="Business Dictionary - Marketing" href="http://www.businessdictionary.com/definition/marketing.html">Business Dictionary</a> is the, &#8220;Management process through which goods and services move from concept to the customer. As a philosophy, it is based on thinking about the business in terms of customer <em> needs</em> and their <em>satisfaction</em>.&#8221; (The italics are mine for emphasis.)</p>
<p>Yeah, it&#8217;s different.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;re in marketing, you know the 4P&#8217;s, and while marketing uses these concepts, we could probably agree that Social Networking comes into play when you need to reach out, whether through promotion, distribution, etc. Networking becomes a part of marketing but is <em><strong>not </strong></em>a replacement.</p>
<p>From my perspective, and this is not an exhaustive explanation, social marketing is the ability to provide a presence; the presence for customer service, promotion, ad placement, whatever way one chooses to look at the term &#8220;presence&#8221;. Although there are many niches to marketing, like international marketing, strategic marketing, research marketing, the list goes on, they all are to reach a goal. The goal for marketing is to complete the need or want of a client while keeping them satisfied so that they can come back again and again for the excellent service or product they expect.</p>
<p>Managing the way the product is viewed, sold, and using proper customer service social marketing is giving managers a way to less expensively monitor the activity around the product and respond accordingly.</p>
<p>The two concepts of social networking and social marketing are vastly different. Which are you? Which do you do better? Mix or choose one.</p>
<p>LinkedIn &#8211; <a href="http://www.linkedin.com/in/marykurek">Mary Kurek</a></p>
<p>LinkedIn &#8211; <a title="LinkedIn - Chuck Hester" href="http://www.linkedin.com/in/chuckhester">Chuck Hester</a></p>
<p><em><strong>Image by <a title="Flickr - Thescatteredimage" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rob_birze/">TheScatteredImage</a></strong></em></p>
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		<title>#FF Follow Friday 16-04-2010</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Apr 2010 13:41:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Greg de Lima</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A while back Chris Brogan mentioned using Follow Friday for Blog Traffic. So I figured I would give it a shot. Here are April 16th&#8217;s Follow Friday. Roger Harris &#8211; @rharris &#8211; Former Social Media Manager for Capstrat, now owns his own company Harris Social Media. Allie Sullivan &#8211; @AshevilleAllie &#8211; She might become just [...]]]></description>
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A while back Chris Brogan mentioned using <a title="Chris Brogan - Twitter Follow Friday in Blog Traffic" href="http://www.chrisbrogan.com/turn-twitters-follow-friday-in-blog-traffic/">Follow Friday for Blog Traffic</a>. So I figured I would give it a shot.</p>
<p>Here are April 16th&#8217;s Follow Friday.</p>
<p>Roger Harris &#8211; <a title="Twitter - Roger Harris" href="http://twitter.com/rharris">@rharris</a> &#8211; Former Social Media Manager for Capstrat, now owns his own company <a title="Roger Harris - Harris Social Media" href="http://harrissocialmedia.com/">Harris Social Media</a>.</p>
<p>Allie Sullivan &#8211; <a title="Twitter - Allie Sullivan" href="http://twitter.com/ashevilleallie">@AshevilleAllie</a> &#8211; She might become just @allie, or @wherevershemovesto-allie. But a great person to follow .</p>
<p><a title="Danielle Hatfield" href="http://daniellehatfield.com/">Danielle Hatfield</a> &#8211; <a title="Twitter - Danielle Hatfield" href="http://twitter.com/dhatfield">@dhatfield</a> &#8211; Graphic arts designer, has a knack for Twittering and <a href="http://twitter.com/dhatfield/status/12104325263">waking up at 5am</a>.</p>
<p><a title="Dan London" href="http://www.dan-london.com">Dan London</a> &#8211; <a title="Twitter - Dan London" href="http://twitter.com/danlondon">@danlondon</a> &#8211; Director of Online Marketing, at <a title="ShareFile" href="http://sharefile.com">ShareFile.com</a>, great guy phenomenal information from his tweets!</p>
<p><a title="Phil Buckley" href="http://www.1918.com/">Phil Buckley</a> &#8211; <a title="Twitter - Phil Buckley - 1918" href="http://twitter.com/1918">@1918</a> &#8211; SEO, Social Marketing and all around nice guy, Phil Buckley is incredible for new news or conversation.</p>
<p><a title="David Armano" href="http://darmano.typepad.com/">David Armano</a> &#8211; <a title="Twitter - David Armano" href="http://twitter.com/armano">@armano</a> &#8211; Senior Vice President at <a title="Edelman Digital" href="http://edelmandigital.com/">Edelman Digital</a>,  a very active participant in engaging his friends and communitu, David Armano is a leading digital marketing genius.</p>
<p>Any recommendations or follow ups?</p>
<p><em><strong>Image by <a title="Flickr  - Mr. Greenjeans" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/gaylon/">Mr. Greenjeans</a></strong></em></p>
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		<title>It&#8217;s Not About Us</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Apr 2010 10:24:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Greg de Lima</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Gen-Y this, Gen-Y that, for Pete&#8217;s sake, it&#8217;s NOT about us! We aren&#8217;t the decision makers, we aren&#8217;t the new revolution we&#8217;re not everything you&#8217;re making us out to be! Generally, the assumption has been that the Gen-Y has been taking social media and networking by storm. The truth is, we&#8217;re the growing portion, but [...]]]></description>
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<p style="text-align: left;">Gen-Y this, Gen-Y that, for Pete&#8217;s sake, it&#8217;s <em><strong>NOT </strong></em>about us! We aren&#8217;t the decision makers, we aren&#8217;t the new revolution we&#8217;re not everything you&#8217;re making us out to be!</p>
<p>Generally, the assumption has been that the Gen-Y has been taking social media and networking by storm. The truth is, we&#8217;re the growing portion, but by no means are we the controlling factor or the vast majority.</p>
<p>In 2009 a <a title="PEW - Twitter Memo" href="http://www.pewinternet.org/~/media//Files/Reports/2009/PIP%20Twitter%20Memo%20FINAL.pdf">PEW document </a>showed some interesting stats on Twitter.</p>
<blockquote><p>Nearly one in five (19%) online adults ages 18 to 24 have ever used Twitter and its ilk, as have<br />
20% of online adults 25 to 34. Use of these services drops off steadily after age 35 with<br />
10% of 35 to 44 year olds and 5% of 45 to 54 year olds using Twitter. The decline is even<br />
more stark among older internet users; 4% of 55-64 year olds and 2% of those 65 and<br />
older use Twitter.</p></blockquote>
<p>The thing to take into account is that, yes the Gen-Y range is the growing range, but the combined weight of the other ages outside of Gen-Y is greater.</p>
<p>On Facebook, the stats are similar according to <a title="Quantcast - Facebook" href="http://www.quantcast.com/facebook.com">Quantcast</a>.</p>
<ul>
<li>Ages 13-17 represent 22% of the total</li>
<li>Ages18-34 represent 42% of the total</li>
<li>Ages 35-49 represent 20% of the total</li>
<li>Ages 50+ represent 12% of the total</li>
</ul>
<p>Again, we represent a good portion but the combined weight of outside of Gen-Y is larger.</p>
<p>What does this mean for your marketing and your point of view?</p>
<p>Stop focusing on just that generation. While we can represent a good portion of the online network we can never forget that being able to teach someone else is also key. A generation older than us can also go online and search for a business on Google, or find a way to communicate via Twitter or Facebook.</p>
<p>Over at <a title="Kristin Dziadul - A New Generation - Millenials Instant Fame" href="http://kdmedianow.com/2010/04/08/millennials-view-instant-fame/">A New Generation</a>, Kristin Dziadul (<a title="Twitter - Kristin E Dziadul" href="http://twitter.com/kristinEdziadul">@KristinEDziadul</a>) said,</p>
<blockquote><p>The rise of video has certainly become a trending theme for Generation Y  today since we are seen as the “Me” generation who wants to be the  focus of attention, loves technology, and likes to be socially active.  For instance, I have been seeing an increasingly large number of people  on Facebook sending simple videos to friends, even just to say hi.</p></blockquote>
<p>And she is 100% correct, the thing is, it isn&#8217;t just about Me, or my generation. It is about everyone connected. Everyone being able to communicate to one another and be able to share with each other and teach our parents our bosses what this new media stuff is all about.</p>
<p>There is an opportunity that so many marketers are overlooking by focusing just on Gen-Y and our addiction to being in front of a screen.</p>
<p>Let me know what you think!</p>
<p><em><strong>Image by <a title="Flickr - Gizwomack" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/gizwomack/">Gizwomack</a><br />
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		<title>Do You Know What You Want?</title>
		<link>http://gregdelima.com/2010/03/16/do-you-know-what-you-want/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Mar 2010 10:23:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Greg de Lima</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do you know exactly what you want in a product? What about in a service? Here is a long (18min) video from Malcolm Gladwell at TED in 2004. Watch it if you want but it has only some bearing on the rest of this post. In 2004, Gladwell also released this article in the New [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<!-- Start Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><div style="clear: both; min-height: 1px; height: 3px; width: 100%;"></div><div class='shareaholic-like-buttonset' style='float:none;height:30px;'><a class='shareaholic-fblike' data-shr_layout='standard' data-shr_showfaces='false' data-shr_href='http%3A%2F%2Fgregdelima.com%2F2010%2F03%2F16%2Fdo-you-know-what-you-want%2F' data-shr_title='Do+You+Know+What+You+Want%3F'></a><a class='shareaholic-googleplusone' data-shr_size='standard' data-shr_count='true' data-shr_href='http%3A%2F%2Fgregdelima.com%2F2010%2F03%2F16%2Fdo-you-know-what-you-want%2F' data-shr_title='Do+You+Know+What+You+Want%3F'></a><a class='shareaholic-tweetbutton' data-shr_count='none' data-shr_href='http%3A%2F%2Fgregdelima.com%2F2010%2F03%2F16%2Fdo-you-know-what-you-want%2F' data-shr_title='Do+You+Know+What+You+Want%3F'></a></div><div style="clear: both; min-height: 1px; height: 3px; width: 100%;"></div><!-- End Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><p>Do you know exactly what you want in a product? What about in a service?</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Here is a long (18min) video from Malcolm Gladwell at TED in 2004. Watch it if you want but it has only some bearing on the rest of this post. In 2004, Gladwell also released this article in the New Yorker (<a title="Malcolm Gladwell - The Ketchup Cunundrum" href="http://www.gladwell.com/2004/2004_09_06_a_ketchup.html">The Ketchup Cunundrum</a>).</p>
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<p style="text-align: left;">Consumers are naturally dumb. Not to say they&#8217;re unintelligent or anything along those lines. But when it comes to knowing exactly what they want they have <em>almost </em>no idea what they want or what will make them happy.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">So what does this mean for us as marketers in a social world? <strong>There is <em>no</em> reason we shouldn&#8217;t know what our potential clients want! </strong>That may be stretching it a bit, but with the wealth of information and the range of demographic &amp; psychological analytics we can derive from information posted (thanks to restaurant check-ins and social ratings), we can cater directly to the clients unknowns.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">As consumers it&#8217;s likely they will not know exactly what they want, but we as the providers can take this information and take a look into their tastes. By using this information we can develop strategies for companies that cater directly to these people and literally exploit the things that they love.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><a title="Mashable!" href="http://mashable.com">Mashable!</a> also related to the way consumers behave on internet but from an alternate perspective, <a title="Mashable! - Consumer Competency in Social Design" href="http://mashable.com/2010/03/14/social-design-user-competency/">User Competency in Social Design</a>.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">If these are simple assumptions that Adrian Chan is making, then we can also assume much more about their behavior based on their previous trends.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Let me know what you think! Leave a comment!</p>
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		<title>Keeping up Communications</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Mar 2010 14:15:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Greg de Lima</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Probably one of my favorite parts of this film! But you may be asking, &#8220;ok&#8230;what does Top Gun have to do with Social Media, or Branding?&#8221; Fine, it doesn&#8217;t really have anything to do with it except for the fact they&#8217;re &#8220;Communicating&#8221;. Communication is the one thing that without it, you will crumble. Communication in [...]]]></description>
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<p>Communication is the one thing that without it, you will crumble. Communication in your enterprise may not exactly be your top forte, or your main focus. But as a marketing or sales department, it should be. The ability for a company to maintain a constant interaction with it&#8217;s clients or associates is an aspect that cannot be surpassed by many other departments.</p>
<p>US Airways &amp; the Harvard Business Review had a <a title="US Airways Magazine - Dessert Gallery" href="http://www.usairwaysmag.com/articles/one_cafe_chains_facebook_experiment/">case study</a> of  <a title="Dessert Gallery" href="http://www.dessertgallery.com/">Dessert Gallery</a>.  In it they used a Survey and Facebook, to alter their customers behavior (read the Case Study for more details).  On the off hand I look at this from a different perspective.</p>
<p><strong>What did communication have to do with their success?</strong></p>
<p>Probably more than you might lead to believe. The fact that their upkeep within the Facebook page and in their surveys shows more interaction than before they began this campaign. An ability to start, build, and maintain a constant stream of communication and interaction not only on Facebook, is a difficult task. The time and effort that is needed is one that not everyone can hold on to.</p>
<p><strong>Don&#8217;t Focus on Yourself, </strong>focus on everyone else who is in your Twitter or Facebook stream. Look at your competition, how are they interacting? Are there questions being unanswered about a product or service you prove?</p>
<p>Answer them, be a presence. Be something people <em>want</em> to be a part of!</p>
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		<title>Where Are You Going?</title>
		<link>http://gregdelima.com/2010/02/11/where-are-you-going/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 17:00:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Greg de Lima</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[With your brand that is; your personal brand. What are you doing with it? Do you have your objectives set up? Since the first times I have been following a lot on personal branding and self-marketing, it&#8217;s rather interesting to see how little has changed and how much is repeated. Often times I will stumble [...]]]></description>
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Since the first times I have been following a lot on personal branding and self-marketing, it&#8217;s rather interesting to see how little has changed and how much is repeated. Often times I will stumble in and read something I see that is new but in reality I am reading the same tips and suggestions over and over with different wording. To be quite honest it gets kind of frustrating.</p>
<p>For the sake of clarification here are some of those points. Engage on Twitter, Engage on Facebook, build recognition though a blog, and for those in a more professional setting; enhance the use of your LinkedIn network. Now, that&#8217;s all fine and dandy but if you&#8217;re not entirely new to this gig, like me, reading the same thing gets tiring and overwhelming.</p>
<p>I love the <a title="Student Branding Blog" href="http://studentbranding.com">Student Branding Blog</a>, an offshoot of the <a title="Personal Branding Blog" href="http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/">Personal Branding Blog</a>. But the thing is, I&#8217;m tired of reading tips I&#8217;ve been hearing from my parents and college advisors. Every once in a while I will come across something interesting that I have yet to read, but that is a rare occasion. With no disrespect to the author, I would like to look at this post at the Student Branding Blog: <a title="Facebook: Personal Branding Friend or Foe?" href="http://studentbranding.com/facebook-personal-branding-friend-or-foe/">Facebook: Personal Branding Friend or Foe?</a>. I just have one comment on this; the whole post is almost one big, &#8220;no s*** sherlock&#8221;. The points are obvious, points that people already know, but yet students obviously still haven&#8217;t caught on to efficiently. I still see my friends&#8217; pictures with beers and bongs thinking, &#8220;are you stupid?&#8221;, not to mention on a 100% public profile too!</p>
<p>When all is said and done, I implore many of you personal brands, and aides to personal brands to advance your techniques and posts. Don&#8217;t repeat the same information for a professional personal brand for a student. It IS different, there are differences that should be addressed, that have not been explored to their full extent.</p>
<p>So I ask you again; where are you taking your personal brand? Are you advancing in the way you want to? Where is your focus?</p>
<p><strong><em>Image by <a href="/photos/digitalparadox/"><strong>DigitalParadox</strong></a></em></strong></p>
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		<title>The Week of Releases</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Feb 2010 12:57:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Greg de Lima</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The buzz about the buzz is buzzing (cheezy I know but I had to). This week I had the luxury of seeing two great releases applied to me. As many of you know those two releases are 1) Facebook&#8217;s new layout, and 2) Google&#8217;s Buzz. Facebook I&#8217;m not going to say that I dislike the [...]]]></description>
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<p>The buzz about the buzz is buzzing (cheezy I know but I had to). This week I had the luxury of seeing two great releases applied to me. As many of you know those two releases are 1) <a title="Facebook Blog - New Layout" href="http://blog.facebook.com/blog.php?post=287459122130">Facebook&#8217;s new layout</a>, and 2) <a title="Official Google Blog - Buzz" href="http://gmailblog.blogspot.com/2010/02/google-buzz-in-gmail.html">Google&#8217;s Buzz</a>.</p>
<h3>Facebook</h3>
<p>I&#8217;m not going to say that I dislike the new layout because the truth is I do like it. The layout is simpler, just as easy to follow, and it doesn&#8217;t change things around so much that the users will have some new kind of heart attack causing groups of hundreds of thousands to whine and moan about it.</p>
<p><strong>Pros</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>Just as simple, easy to follow, it has good flow.</li>
<li>Everything you need is within the first left column or on the top bar.</li>
<li>The search bar becomes more prominent, easier to find, and still just as great to use.</li>
<li>More focus on the real-time news feed, and the option to control it better</li>
</ul>
<p><strong>Cons</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>It&#8217;s a little bit too blue. I don&#8217;t know if I&#8217;m colorblind or what, but the three icons next to the Facebook icon, are hard as hell for me to see. I will definitely not use them as much.</li>
<li>Message inbox isn&#8217;t as noticeable. I like using the inbox, private messages are helpful. But now accessing the inbox is a little bit tougher by creating a non-top bar icon and moving it to the mix of the left column.</li>
<li>It&#8217;s a hair slower, my connection here in my dorm sometimes isn&#8217;t tip-top, so when it slows down and comes to a crawl, it&#8217;s noticeable.</li>
</ul>
<p>I have my opinions, about it but all-in-all it&#8217;s a new layout. I don&#8217;t think that it will cause too much controversy.</p>
<h3>Google Buzz</h3>
<p>I&#8217;m normally a late adopter finding about things behind the curve and even more so becoming accustomed to using them.  But before I give my opinion, read <a title="5 Reasons Why Google Buzz Will Fail" href="http://tremendousnews.com/2010/02/09/5-reasons-why-google-buzz-will-fail/">this, it&#8217;s a funny bashing</a> of Google Buzz (no I&#8217;m not 100% against it).</p>
<p>The new Buzz feature isn&#8217;t new. As Microsoft and <a href="http://www.businessinsider.com/yahoo-weve-had-our-own-google-buzz-for-over-a-year-2010-2">Yahoo have recently been doing</a> by belittling the new tool explaining that they have had the feature for over a year now, this is nothing new, but the dominant market of social-medialites has normally been associated with Google. The shear fact that this <em>expectation</em> arrives out of Google immediately offers it up to a larger and more target market. Buzz will just stick more with the people who want it.</p>
<p>Now I don&#8217;t like that Buzz provides me a number (like unread emails) from people I don&#8217;t follow, such as commenters from people I <strong><em>do</em></strong> follow. It&#8217;s annoying and when I read my friend&#8217;s posts, I will then look at the comments, I don&#8217;t want to see 587 Buzzes when I actually only have 20. It&#8217;s annoying, I don&#8217;t want that. Oh, and make the settings a little more prominent while it&#8217;s still new.</p>
<p>I like on the other hand, that there is not as much of a character limit, like Twitter. This will lead to better search linking especially if it turns into real-time search results. It&#8217;s easy to use, just like Twitter and FriendFeed it&#8217;s simple to figure out and won&#8217;t take long for people to use Buzz almost in a way to connect their other social media sites. Google&#8217;s Friend Connect also incorporates well into this!</p>
<p>Overall good things, I like new changes.</p>
<p>What do you make of all the new releases?</p>
<p><strong><em>Image by </em></strong><a href="/photos/h_m_h/"><strong><em>ayche_em_ayche</em></strong></a></p>
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		<title>Burning Bridges &#8211; Relationship Series pt. 4</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Jan 2010 18:35:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Greg de Lima</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Have you burned any bridges lately? ← Please not that one, I happen to like it! But really, have you? Why? Sometimes I think it can be the best thing you can do. Although, should you ask many of the A-list bloggers and Personal Branding gurus, they will say no keep them around you never [...]]]></description>
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<strong><span style="font-weight: normal;">← Please not that one, I happen to like it!</span></strong></p>
<p>But really, have you? Why? Sometimes I think it can be the best thing you can do. Although, should you ask many of the A-list bloggers and Personal Branding gurus, they will say no keep them around you never know when you will need them.</p>
<p>While I agree with that, I don&#8217;t mean erase them from your book and be the world&#8217;s biggest jerk to them. Just don&#8217;t ruin it to where they will be undisposed to help you in the future. Because really they will be a help for you.</p>
<p>But what do you do when you just can&#8217;t stand someone, or they&#8217;re destructive to your client relationship, your business, or your own brand? You have to realize that <strong>there will always be someone you won&#8217;t get along with. </strong>Thanks human nature. The reality of the matter is that even though they are affecting you negatively you must turn that into a positive realization for you and what you stand for. Be it your B2B, B2C, relationship, whatever. There is always something constructive to be obtained from negativity.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s take <a title="Twitter- Dan Schawbel" href="http://twitter.com/DanSchawbel">Dan Schawbe</a>l for example, the premier on <a href="http://personalbrandingblog.com">Personal Branding</a>. A few days ago he tweeted:</p>
<blockquote><p>You have to be as committed to your social media profile as you are to your husband or wife.</p></blockquote>
<p>And boy oh boy did that spark someone. Just read the response at <a href="http://jerryalbright.wordpress.com/2010/01/14/social-media-marriage-and-danschawbel/">Jerry Albright&#8217;s Blog</a>.</p>
<p>I wouldn&#8217;t go as far as saying to burn a bridge but learn from it, why do people misunderstand advice? What can you do to clarify? Don&#8217;t go on the defensive and strike back, understand the misconception and react appropriately. Let us also not forget to take things with a grain of salt. No need to dwell.</p>
<p>Sometimes though, you must sever the connection. Just let things go and only attend to that contact when needed. Burn Bridges, it just might be productive.</p>
<p>What do you think? Have you burned bridges? Why? Did was it a wise move?</p>
<p><strong><em>Image by </em></strong><a title="Flickr- Anirudh Koul" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/anirudhkoul/"><strong><em>Anirudh Koul</em></strong></a></p>
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		<title>Community Marketing &#8211; Relationship Series pt. 3</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 09 Jan 2010 15:56:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Greg de Lima</dc:creator>
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<p>The market as we know it has been changing, and rapidly. The real question is, who&#8217;s fault is it? Is it the consumer, the businesses, both? Well in reality, it can be easily attributed to both.&nbsp;</p>
<p>As marketers we have to realize <strong>the difference between marketing to a community or marketing to an individual business</strong>. This has become a major difference in B2B marketing and B2C marketing.&nbsp;</p>
<p>When you&#8217;re looking to seek out the community your relationship becomes, not less focused, but re aligned, per se. When looking for the community you must not only take into account one business or one individual, but the whole market for that community in itself. <strong>Where does their trust lie? </strong>With you with another competitor or are you looking into such a niche community that there has yet to be anything like what you&#8217;re offering?</p>
<p>These are times of treading carefully, with so many options of marketing and products and services, building your relationship before pushing yourself into the market is a huge consideration. People need to understand that yes, you have in fact been around for a while, that you understand their wants and needs and that your offer is right up their alley because you understand them. <strong>You don&#8217;t want to jump in blindly and have no idea what your market is looking for and hope for the best.</strong>&nbsp;You would be setting yourself up for immediate failure. I&#8217;m not saying build surveys and spend a lot of budget in case-studies. That&#8217;s a little too concrete.&nbsp;</p>
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<li>Be on Twitter, connect, participate in the conversation revolving your community.</li>
<li>Interact &#8211; don&#8217;t just be a link pusher, and repeat what everyone else is doing.</li>
<li>Innovate &#8211; are you doing what it takes to stick out?</li>
<li>Trust them, they will trust you &#8211; Relationships are mutual, stick to what you offer and don&#8217;t back out.</li>
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<div>Let me know what you think, leave a comment or Re-Tweet this post!</div>
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<p><strong>Image by&nbsp;</strong><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/khalid-almasoud/" title="Flickr - Khalid Almasoud"><em><strong>khalid almasoud</strong></em></a></p>
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